Happy New Year!  I trust everyone had a wonderful holiday and is raring to take on the new decade.  Not too long ago I wrote about the success we had achieved in getting our non sleeping baby to finally sleep through the night.  The last couple of months of rest and recovery have been doing wonders.  Rhianna has once again taken up quest to practice and perfect her ability to ejaculate.

If you recall, I wrote here about Rhianna’s first reaction to encountering female ejaculation.  Like many women, she was fascinated by it but had absolutely no clue how it was done.  Once we had tried swinging and Rhianna had seen another women squirt with her own eyes she wanted to learn how to do for herself.  However, seeing another woman squirt is one thing but learning how to do it is entirely a different matter.

Trying to find some good books and videos on learning how to squirt was not so easy.  Some books will describe female ejaculation but provide only the vague details on how it is done.  We had purchased Caroline and Charles Muir’s Secrets of Female Sexual Ecstasy DVD to see if they might be able to provide some insights into learning how to squirt.   While this video is a great introduction to anyone wanting to learn about female ejaculation, Rhianna just could not get enough practical information from the DVD that could be useful.

After a lot of searching and trying other books and DVD`s we had found something that really worked.  Deborah Sundhal`s book Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot: Not Your Mother’s Orgasm Book! was a real winner.  Sundhal’s book is very informative and easy to follow.  Her book describes in detail the three types of female orgasm.  There is also a section on the history of female ejaculation that really helps reinforce the notion that female ejaculation has been around for a really long time.  The book also describes how to ejaculate with or without an orgasm.  After followoing Sundahl’s easy to follow instructions, Rhianna was able to ejaculate after the first try.  This happened during the Fall of 2008 and was a great success for her.  Unfortunately, life got real busy and hectic and Rhianna had to put her practice sessions to the side for a while.

With things settling down again in the last couple of months Rhianna has been able to resume her practicing.  Rhianna’s squirting skills have been progressing nicely.  She became very comfortable squirting without an orgasm and can do it fairly easily now.  She has been building up her confidence in her abilities and the other night Rhianna was able to squirt three times in a row!   Yum Yum Yum!    Rhianna has told me that squirting without an orgasm is a wonderful experience in of itself but squirting with an orgasm is a bit more challenging for her.  She wants to be completely comfortable with squirting without an orgasm before moving onto squirting with an orgasm.

Sundhal also has a DVD – Female Ejaculation Workshop which can be found on the Amazon.com website.  We had downloaded it and Rhianna had found it very useful in helping her learn the technique.  We would recommend Sundhal`s book and DVD to anyone wishing to learn how to female ejaculate.  Sundhal`s book is a good read and her instructions are easy to follow.

As Rhianna progresses through her female ejaculation practicing I will provide some updates.  Her progress is remarkable and she is getting better and better every day.

Check here for the next update on Rhianna’s Progress!